About Me…

I’m not a professional writer, nor am I a dating/relationship expert. I’m just a regular 34 year old singleton who doesn’t want to be a singleton any more; sharing my thoughts, opinions and dating experiences with you. I hope you enjoy!

Come and find me on Twitter: www.twitter.com/TheSingleFilez

10 ‘Interesting’ Facts About Me…

  1. I have never had a long term relationship.
  2. I tend to attract guys who have either commitment or baggage issues.
  3. I tend to attract guys who are younger than me. I’m 34 years old but I look (and sometimes act!) like a 25 year old.
  4. I’m terrible at making eye-contact with a guy I fancy if out at a bar, club or even on the street.
  5. I’ve mostly dated black and mixed race guys, however, now I plan to be an equal opportunist.
  6. I’ve never had a fuck buddy or any kind of ‘friends with benefits’ arrangement.
  7. I go for extremely looooong periods without having sex (see point 6).
  8. My crushes include Lance Gross, David Beckham, Keston Karter, Khalil Kain, Common, Eddie Cibrian, Idris Elba, Mechad Brooks, Shemar Moore and Mark Wahlberg.
  9. My friends and family truly don’t understand why I’ve never had a boyfriend (I know they’re biased, but I tend to agree with them).
  10. I have a great social life and don’t let being single stop me from doing what I want to do but hey, plain and simple, I’d really like a boyfriend now.

8 Responses to “About Me…”

  1. Pat October 30, 2010 at 3:12 PM #

    Dear Single Filez,

    I have read the list about your dating history and I find it quite interesting. You sound like a free spirit, but seem to find it problematic.

    I have had the opposite experiences, since the age of 19 I have always had a relationship until 2006 that is. Since then I have done the dating thing (something I had not done before, I always found love almost straight after meeting with the person).

    I have used the internet and found that is full of loosers man that think that they are god’s gift to women!!!

    Well all of those ‘gifted’ men had failed marriages, sexual issues and the social skills of a vegetable. Now you might think I was unlucky, well talking to many, many, many, many women about the internet dating thing they found the same if not worsts kind of men!

    I am lucky in the fact that I can tell by the profile what’s going to happen, but my social experiment got really boring.

    You are a young woman in the prime of life, so your life should revolve around you! You are not a product on offer!

    I meet many nice people in London and they, unlike me, are romantic want relationship and warmth. Things that in this city are really needed.

    Do you have a list? Bin it!


    • TheSingleFilez October 31, 2010 at 3:31 PM #

      Hi Pat, thanks so much for reading, and for your comment.

      I am indeed a free spirit and it is a wonderful thing!

      You say “You are a young woman in the prime of life, so your life should revolve around you!” My life does revolve around me. I live alone, I have no responsibilities. I do what I do, when I want to do it… so yes my life definitely revolves around me (and my family and some friends, of course).

      Please do remember that this is a dating/relationship blog, so those are the things I write about BUT it doesn’t mean that this is all I’m about. There are plenty of other areas of my life that are great and I spend a lot of time having fun. I hope this blog doesn’t paint a picture of me sat home alone, rocking back and forth, scouring the internet for men because that isn’t the case. This blog is a fun hobby for me and sometimes it actually takes the seriousness out of dating. I enjoy it!

      I think the thing to remember is point 10 above, “I have a great social life and don’t let being single stop me from doing what I want to do but hey, plain and simple, I’d really like a boyfriend now.”


  2. Harriet Bond November 23, 2010 at 2:58 PM #

    Am loving your blog so far!(You are the same age and the same status as myself, so it’s all very familiar!). Am starting my own at http://www.harrietbond.com all about internet dating and watching out for dodgy elements!Please visit soon and comment if you wish…….

  3. Camilla Brown February 9, 2011 at 9:24 AM #

    London men are the UK’s biggest flirts, says new survey!


    The first ever survey into online flirting habits has found that men in London are the UK’s biggest flirts, and 87 percent would flirt with women 10 years older than them. With Cougars such as Demi Moore and Eva Longoria in the media spotlight it’s unsurprising that this is one of the startling trends highlighted in The Flirt Report from Flirtomatic.com.

    Please ,et me know if you would like to see the full press release!

    Kind regards,

    Camilla Brown

  4. Sarah February 2, 2012 at 8:01 PM #

    I found you via Zabrinah (your interview) and I have to say that I find your site and posts great! And will definitely follow you. 🙂

    Lots of hugs,

  5. Aurathena March 14, 2012 at 7:49 PM #

    I’ve nominated you for The Versatile Blogger award!
    Thank you for making my day brighter through your blog!

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